Our ancestors made such a mark on the canvas of the country that not only other communities but even the government is worried about the declining demographic trend in the community. But no incentive will change the situation unless there is a change in our mindset. In the present scenario it will not be possible even to stall the numbers, leave aside reverse the decline.
In earlier times, having about four children in a family was deemed normal; some had more, jokingly referred to as a cricket team. Children were brought up in a happy joint family environment with less burden on the parents as they grew up with their siblings and cousins.
With the advent of the nuclear family, and both parents working, Parsis prefer to have one child, and that too after they are well settled so that the offspring receives the best care and comfort. Cash incentives are offered for the second and third child, but some Parsi parents may shy away from accepting financial assistance.
When both parents are working, the real problem is not money but the safe custody of the child during working hours. The money being offered as incentives for the second and third child could be utilized to establish day-care centers in colonies where working parents can leave their children in safe custody. Social workers from the colony could take on the responsibility of supervising the facilities provided to the children. If this problem is tackled, it might motivate many working parents to have more children.
Being brought up as only child could hamper all-round development, making the child self-centered. Children who grow up with their siblings develop values and a sense of responsibility. Wealth may not compensate for the joy and happiness children experience in the company of their siblings.
Children are our greatest assets. More children ensure greater security for their parents in old age. Children gift us with lovely grandchildren who rejuvenate our minds, make us feel younger and energetic. An increase in earning members means greater income and prosperity for the family.
With the child-bearing period being limited, it will be a lifelong regret if one should miss the opportunity. Couples should not regret having more children. Think rationally and wisely for your own future and that of the community which has so much to offer to the future generations. PIROJA HOMI JOKHI
piroja.jokhi@yahoo.com