On losing a spouse one needs inner
strength to transmute a traumatic experience
into a triumph of spirit
Dilber Bokdawala
This extract from The White Feather Diary. From Grieving To Healing by Dilber Bokdawala has been reproduced here with permission from the first time author who is also the publisher (dnbokdawala215@gmail.com).
After losing my husband Nozer, I went through a gamut of emotions which I didn’t even know existed, which I hadn’t felt before. A kind of fear I never knew, a darkness that could have easily consumed all of my being, an anxiety so sharp that at times I felt I was losing my mind. But at the same time a strength emerged from the very core of my soul,......